Moving on

Turn your back to the pain
Forget the betrayal
Escape from the abuser and advance
Tomorrow has more to offer.

Step by step without wandering
Break the yoke of sadness
Press toward the sunshine
And forget the shame you wore for a long time.

Address yourself with respect
Talk your way to higher heights
Believe you’re going to make it
And you will surely make it.

Life brings you everyday a new tune
Choose the song to go with it
Take the most of it
And make your own story.

Dream and create
Build and achieve
Smile and be grateful
Because you are still alive!


By Nathalie Zulu M.

I woke up this morning
Knowing that I made that step
But I felt so bad.

I tried to convince myself,
I tried to reason
Thinking, it’s only for a while,
But I felt so bad.

I recalled those moments,
I cried knowing that
It could have been worst.
But still, felt bad.

Why! Why!
Tell me why!
Why I can’t or I shouldn’t?
Now I am confused.
Still, I am feeling bad.

Feelings can be killers, they tend to push you away from your destiny.
After hard times and emotional breakdown, decisions can be confusing and most of the time we feel like shutting down everything and be left alone.
Yes it’s good but, don’t remain in that stage for long, you are just killing yourself.
pick up the broken pieces and throw away the ones you don’t need, and with the rest, rebuild your life with stronger structures, which are God and love. Family, friends and your career are a plus to not neglect.

I cried my last tears

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Have yourself a positive year

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Way to Happiness

Many men and women tend to take their partners for granted, that’s a huge mistake! Let wake up and understand that works need to be done from both sides in order to live and enjoy the all of our partners.
Women have the ability to adapt to any situation, to be patient and understanding, to endure, even to compromise and all because of love. Most of the time we forget our own happiness, cover mistakes and settle for less than what we dreamed for.

Happiness starts with you lady!
Not with your relationship, not with your job, not with your money but with you.
It comes from within not from a man.

Learn to love yourself, treat yourself well. Your beauty is from inside but remember people first come in encounter with the outside.

Like a flower, discover my beauty.
Like a flower, discover my beauty.

How you present yourself, the way you speak, your smile and attitude will determine whether or not to approach you and have any kind of relationship. So be smart enough to give to yourself the attention, respect and love you wish others to give you.
Spoil yourself time to time to a good movie, a nice restaurant, a local/ international trip, and why not a makeover just to WOW some people.

Trust me, as a single mother I have been too busy spoiling my children and at the end when came the night I felt like I wasn’t happy. I blamed my children’s father for a long time until I realized after ready a lot on relationships that I am the sole owner of my happiness. I started changing the routine. I sometimes go out dinner or to concert with a sister friend of mine and the first time I went to the movie alone was last August, I felt it weird but seeing that I wasn’t the only single person in the theatre made me realized what I was missing all the years going for kids movies.

By the way I watched * Bad Moms* It was so hilarious, I laughed so much that I could feel something different within me. Even my children could see that I really enjoyed that movie night out.

Always remember that your happiness is a must in relationship whether you are married or not. You need to keep your partner feeling wanted but also feeling the need of you. Spoil him with things that can’t be bought like your time, love and respect. Be a good listener, attentive to his need.

I read something from a Facebook page that I want to share with you. A sad reality that most of men don’t realize until it’s too late.
Relationships, Woman's pain, Unhappiness, Desire
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When a man doesn’t know how to respond to your love and attention it gets hard to be happy in the relationship. He shouldn’t let you guess his feelings for you.
A man who doesn’t fight for you isn’t worth fighting for. Stop investing your emotions for a man who is playing guessing games with you and act like he cares less whether you are in his life or not. If he can disrespect, cheat, starve you of time, attention, commitment and you still stay loyal to him, you’re teaching him to never value you, because he can neglect you and still get your all. A real man won’t put himself in a position to lose you.
When you are in a relationship take time to listen not only to your man’s words but also be attentive to his actions they tell you more than the words coming out of his mouth.

Do not settle for someone treating you less than you deserve to be treated! If they don’t see your worth, value, beauty inside and out, it’s their loss!
You deserve a relationship with someone who doesn’t make you compete for his affection and never has you question your position in his life.
You are a woman someone is praying for.