The day I met you…

By Nathalie Zulu M.

All was quiet,
The sun was at its best
In the midst of a multitude
I made my entrance

Like strike by a lightning
My eyes could not shift

I can’t say how I felt
Neither can I explain what happened
I lost my words for seconds
And rushed to sit at the back
Running away from the moment

I caught my breath
And remained silent for a while

Questions popped in my head
Who is he?
Did he see me?
What is he doing here?
Will he talk to me?
Will he look at me?
O my God!
I am losing it

I was shy in my tender age
Then thought, no!
Not now!
I can’t be shy

Like a game shifter
I found myself next to you
We talked for a while
I listened to every words
Carefully captured details
What a bel homme!

It was fun
Instructive I will say

If only I could frizz the time
And make it last for ever
Of course No

The sun wasn’t pleading on my favor
It is late
With a heavy heart
will take my leave
holding in my mind
that pure light skin
those long fingers
and that shy expression of yours
hoping that
We will meet again

Focus on me

By Nathalie Zulu M.

Bring my world to your world,
Undress my heart, make it yours
Like the morning,
Give a new story to my life

Treat me like a queen,
Make me feel special,
Let me from far hear your praises and songs.
Make me yours.

Take my hand,
Treat me well,
Don’t look around,
I am here.
Just me, just yours.

Desire me,
Hold me,
Entertain me,
Make me lose myself

With boldness, arise.
With strength and might, fight.
With love, take me;
And make me yours forever.

Being a woman

By Nathalie Zulu M.


Woman, an adult female human being as defined by most dictionaries.

Being a woman comes with attributes, a sense of duty, qualities and virtues; many have defined a woman by her qualities: Virtuous, loving and caring, helper, devoted, persevering, courageous, seductive, inventive, curious, kind, and the list goes on and on.

I always said, women have been created with special gifts. We have the ability to adapt to different situations and remain calm in the face of adversity.
Naturally able to think, act and bring innovation. We see what others don’t see. We look for opportunity, seize them, bring up ideas and inspire others to do the same.

When dealing with life issues, family, kids, business, job or ministry, we become strategic, no distraction is allowed. We keep our focus on what we are doing until we reach the result expected.

Mothers and daughters
Mothers and daughters

A woman doesn’t boast her ego; she humbles herself and is opened to learn from others.

“One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman” Simone de Beauvoir

As a little girl Continue reading “Being a woman”

Way to Happiness

Many men and women tend to take their partners for granted, that’s a huge mistake! Let wake up and understand that works need to be done from both sides in order to live and enjoy the all of our partners.
Women have the ability to adapt to any situation, to be patient and understanding, to endure, even to compromise and all because of love. Most of the time we forget our own happiness, cover mistakes and settle for less than what we dreamed for.

Happiness starts with you lady!
Not with your relationship, not with your job, not with your money but with you.
It comes from within not from a man.

Learn to love yourself, treat yourself well. Your beauty is from inside but remember people first come in encounter with the outside.

Like a flower, discover my beauty.
Like a flower, discover my beauty.

How you present yourself, the way you speak, your smile and attitude will determine whether or not to approach you and have any kind of relationship. So be smart enough to give to yourself the attention, respect and love you wish others to give you.
Spoil yourself time to time to a good movie, a nice restaurant, a local/ international trip, and why not a makeover just to WOW some people.

Trust me, as a single mother I have been too busy spoiling my children and at the end when came the night I felt like I wasn’t happy. I blamed my children’s father for a long time until I realized after ready a lot on relationships that I am the sole owner of my happiness. I started changing the routine. I sometimes go out dinner or to concert with a sister friend of mine and the first time I went to the movie alone was last August, I felt it weird but seeing that I wasn’t the only single person in the theatre made me realized what I was missing all the years going for kids movies.

By the way I watched * Bad Moms* It was so hilarious, I laughed so much that I could feel something different within me. Even my children could see that I really enjoyed that movie night out.

Always remember that your happiness is a must in relationship whether you are married or not. You need to keep your partner feeling wanted but also feeling the need of you. Spoil him with things that can’t be bought like your time, love and respect. Be a good listener, attentive to his need.

I read something from a Facebook page that I want to share with you. A sad reality that most of men don’t realize until it’s too late.
Relationships, Woman's pain, Unhappiness, Desire
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When a man doesn’t know how to respond to your love and attention it gets hard to be happy in the relationship. He shouldn’t let you guess his feelings for you.
A man who doesn’t fight for you isn’t worth fighting for. Stop investing your emotions for a man who is playing guessing games with you and act like he cares less whether you are in his life or not. If he can disrespect, cheat, starve you of time, attention, commitment and you still stay loyal to him, you’re teaching him to never value you, because he can neglect you and still get your all. A real man won’t put himself in a position to lose you.
When you are in a relationship take time to listen not only to your man’s words but also be attentive to his actions they tell you more than the words coming out of his mouth.

Do not settle for someone treating you less than you deserve to be treated! If they don’t see your worth, value, beauty inside and out, it’s their loss!
You deserve a relationship with someone who doesn’t make you compete for his affection and never has you question your position in his life.
You are a woman someone is praying for.


Let all that you do be done in Love. ( 1 Corinthians 16:14)
Let all that you do be done in Love. ( 1 Corinthians 16:14)

Today I have some notes about love.
I still don’t know how to call my style but I keep on writing. I will easily accompany this one with a background music, very slow with emotions.
So feel free to leave a comment.

LOVE , Poetry #1

by Nathalie Zulu M.

What is love?
It’s the sound of my heart beating fast every time I see you

What is Love?
It’s me losing control of my senses whenever I am around you

What is love?
It’s me flying every time I smell your perfume

What is love?
It’s the feeling of belonging to your world

What is Love?
It’s when you hold me tight in your harms and whisper I love you
And I fall every time.

What is Love?
I will ask and ask again what is love?
It’s you around me, you in my heart, you in my veins, you stuck in my mind
What is love?
It’s your smile, your kisses

What is love?
It’s the sound of you, me and passion

What is Love?
It’s like a tattoo engraved on my skin that I can’t get rid off

What is love?
It’s me saying no but my body says yes
The more I resist, I find myself taken by the waves

What is this love?
It’s the lack of sleep whenever you are not here with me

What is Love?
It’s the pain, the stress, the agony when I can’t have you

What is Love?
It’s seeing you in the hands of another
Tormented, lost by your silence

What is love?
It’s when no one can hear my cries, no one can feel my pain and no one can help me
Even when it hurts, I still love you

Really what is love?
It’s you and me
This is Love.

Song by Veronika Bozeman : “What is Love”

Love is beautiful when you are surrounded by people you love and those who care for you.
I appreciate every gift of life with love and will not take it for granted. I will cherish every moments I spend with my friends and family. Like an angel who brings a message I will bring joy, peace, happiness into lives and showing to the world how big a woman’s heart is and how much it can contain just with love.